Sorry for the lack of updates , But I have been extremely busy with Uni , and been facing alot of crap recently in the forum I run from a rediculous member , whom once upon a time when she asked me for help whether for forum matters or avatars ..etc , I did not even hesitate to offer it to her , and was more than nice about it. Suddenly this member accuses me of being Biased and Lame cause she did not get a joke which I posted towards ANOTHER member. Now the matter does not even concern her , yet she still jumped and slapped me with those accusations and nasty comments about me being full of myself and not worthy fo being an admin there.
I realized from this that no matter how good you are to strangers , you shouldn't expect the same in return , and that they can stab you in the back anytime without any good reason.
The issue in general did not bother me too much , but I have been getting alot of comments ( good and bad ) about my attitude towards that member who attacked me first from both strangers and friends and well It kinda made me smile ,cause no one really took the time to see what was said towards me ,and just focused on my role in the sabla and that I represent the team with what I say. I don't like that kind of restriction at all , and I would rather be free to say whatever I want to those who deserve it without feeling limited just cause I am the admin there. I believe I am old enough now to make my own decisions.
Anyways , just felt like writing my thoughts about it here. Thanks to those who offered support , and to hell with those who couldn't see beyond and between the lines.
*feels much better* lol :p
link to the forum argument : HERE
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6 comments:
Too bad I'm not @ Sabla anymore. Now if I reply at that thread, it would seem like I'm back just to make more fuss ... lol.
Anyways, as Balqis mentioned, its always a blast when you're pissed off about something! :P
lol..B..thank you..and u suck. :P
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AWW sree is here. man..it was so great having u as part of the team..since you left..i feel kinda alone. you were good to have whenever I got into a tight spot. I hate u for leaving us. and u suck too..its not funny when i get pissed. lol
In that specific thread, I dont know why the people are being that serious regarding whatever goes on the fourm.
They are asking for changes, I dont see anything needs to be changed. You log on there, you read/post, then log out, dont put it in your mind!
I wanted to say this in that thread. But, though of staying away, because my words wont change anything of the current situation there. Some people are there just to complain!!
Sorry NaBHaN, I took your topic a chance to express myself, so excuse me :D
Talking about the issue raised there with the other member, just smile & forget ;)
I totaly agree with u nightface..and thanks. :)
I read all the replies here & there..
You know Nabs, there is a special trait in you which is that almost for whatever happens, you manage to stand up again and continue to smile. I really like that. Sure if another dude was in your shoes, he'd say "I quit."
Anyway, please don't let this incident get into you by any mean.. You have a big heart.
thanks alot enigma..that was very nice of you to say. :)
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