Should I really care?

I keep on getting this weird feeling lately especially when I blog or post in forums that there are so many people out there in the omani online community that actually hate me. I find it really hard now to know the people who are being 'sincere' when they compliment me or if they're just being nice infront of me , but end up cussing me out whenever they talk to their friends ( I actually know of some people who do this ).

Anyways..I just don't get how people can dislike a person without really knowing everything that needs to be known in order to judge if a person is good or bad.

I wont hide the fact that this can be very annoying , but most of the times I just brush it off and tell myself that if these people never even tried to get to know the real me and just allowed themselves to believe whatever bull others told them then I suppose I shouldnt even bother trying to win them over.

oh well.. just a thought I wanted to share.

Note that I am actually in a very good mood.

Currently Listening to : Ray J - All I want

12 comments:

NiGhTFaCe said...

Simply ignore! I hate it when people judge other people without knowing them.

Anonymous said...

Nabs, you are so tough sometimes.
We had looots of problems in the beginning but then we sorted things out.
Really you are like a son to me and if i say so is cause i care of you: i think you could do some more efforts. People cannot figure out what's inside you, you have to show them, and try to be less stubborn.

. said...

I don't know you much, but I think you are a good person!...I read your blog from time to time. I've seen nothing wrong, and I think who judges others without knowing them should be ignored like a piece of loo7 hehe...
[x]

Najah said...

I think as much as how many they will be there will never be equal to the ones who sencierly respect you Mr.Nab. people like this are just merely sick :) God bless u.

Anonymous said...

[quote]this entry[/quote]

Fixed for truthness.

Unknown said...

Nightface : I find it hard for me to sometimes just ignore people..maybe its something I should seriously work on.

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Amo : we had problems? lol .. i really don't remember other than telling u to stop chit chatting. it was funny actually...but u're right about my stubborness...its something that runs in my family.

will work on it.

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neztic : nice of you to drop by and thank you for your nice words. :)

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Naj : thank you so much. :)

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unemployed : thanks? lol good to see u here again. :)

Justine said...

I find it strange that we're in cyber-space, yet people still stick to their own little demographic group.
Anyway, looks like there's plenty of folk out there who love you.

Unknown said...

justine : tell me about it!

I actually went through your blog a couple of days ago and here you are again. thanks for stopping by. *writes a note to add justin to his blog buddies list* :p

Lym said...

I swear, I don't know anyone who hates you. so cheer up.
They are many who respect you just as NF said including me :)

Just take it easy.

TripleTee said...

...there are a dozen people I know who're hated by others... most of them are people I look up to cuz I know the reason people hate them is mainly of jelousy!! This is somethin that occurs all the time...they say ppl who hate u 4 no particular reason, usually want to be like u...
but I also saw that just as many haters as u may have,u also have lovers... so either ways, u can choose to teach them a lesson or ignore their very existance since after all you really don't need them...

Unknown said...

thanks alot ya'll. I kinda feel stupid now for posting this. :p

Shula B said...

If listen to people what they say you'll never go forward.